What is the point crafting a well-thought out message if it doesn’t get opened, or worse, seen?How to fix this: Spin it on its head and give the headline more importance.We men love to complain about how women have extraordinarily high standards when looking for a mate—however, we fail to look a little bit deeper at why this is the case.While women may get an ego boost when they receive 30-100 messages in any given week, nobody really wishes to have that much admin to sift through.
While I’m not a huge advocate of , I did notice that the less time I spent chasing affection and validation, the more I received in return, when I focused on growing myself as a person.
Ideally, you want to use it to complement and augment your existing chances of finding a partner.
But what if you don’t have any chances or opportunities in your day to day life?
While it does require less effort for women to get responses from the opposite sex, they’re not really in the best position, as they have to dig through a lot of junk before they find any substance.
Headlines are just as important as the content in your message.