In turn, you start attracting healthy, happy, confident women into your life. Every morning when you wake up, and also right before you go to bed, say to yourself, “Dating is…” and fill in the blank.Examples include “Dating is easy,” “Dating is fun,” “Dating is abundant,” etc.
(Disclaimer: OK so I have no actual experience in picking up men, sue me.)The question is how can I as an intivert get to know an introverted man.Just as you should fake confidence and retrain your brain, you should also strive to become your best self. By looking, acting, and talking as though you know who you really are and that you are comfortable in your own skin. Day by day, work toward becoming the best version of yourself.If that means joining a gym to lose a couple of pounds, splurging on a few stylish new wardrobe pieces that make you feel better about yourself, and/or taking a class on presenting with confidence, go for it.By the time you meet someone amazing, you’ll be ready, willing, and able to confidently and comfortably ask her out.If your beliefs about dating have been largely negative, it’s time to retrain your brain. Let go of any dating disappointments and other drama you’ve experienced.