We had a lot to talk about and I had a good vibe from him. He told me that he had a "three-week" rule when it came to asking people out. I didn't hear from him, and although I was a little disappointed, it wasn't a big deal. I told him, over the phone, that I was wondering if I'd ever hear from him.If she REALLY likes you, a week won’t be a problem and it weeds out the girls that really like you from the ones that don’t.Because the ones that don’t like you won’t wait a week, but the ones that do, REALLY like you. Remember how I told you about “He’s Just Not That Into You”?If she REALLY likes you, she won’t be turned off at all hearing from you sooner or later, because she’ll be excited to hear from you at all.You don’t have to text EVERY DAY or several times a day, that’s not what I’m saying.Being SLIGHTLY sporadic is fine, because it’s a little mysterious, yes.I knew one guy that followed the 3 Day Rule to a T. Really delayed things in our relationship and I was feeling like he didn’t like me.
If she is annoyed of it, perhaps she’s just not that into YOU, and waiting longer isn’t going to make you that much more appealing. After you have a fabulous date with a guy, he’s MIA for a whole week? What men’s magazines will tell you is completely nuts.
I personally just like a couple of messages, but I don’t like going back and forth for a long time, I rather just talk on the phone. Write a sentence if you are going to text a girl, not one word hieroglyphics.
And yes, it IS ok to contact her before the 3 Days are up, because if she likes you, she will want to hear from you.
If you truly have a great time with a girl, following up the next day or 2nd day after is fine.
If she likes you, you will be on her mind and she’ll be excited to hear from you.