Cooking for your Nigerian man (men in general) is almost a standard requirement so if you refuse to it’s a big minus.Even though men expect it, they will always appreciate being served like a king. Sure there are a lot of stereotypes about the good and bad of Nigerian men, you are sure to find some if not most of these characteristics to be true. While Nigerian’s have different cultures among the tribes there are some traits that run through and through.No matter if Ghanian, Nigerian or Ugandan, you must be willing to understand and respect your partner.Hopefully this article helps you avoid or understand some of the hiccups in the relationship with your Nigerian man.As in without respect you won’t even crack the door open to a relationship with a Nigerian man.
Not literally, however Nigerian men tend to be close to their parents and siblings, this is even stronger if he is the first born or only male in his family.Give it a shot, maybe you’ll enjoy watching football also and that’s something you can share with your Nigerian man.“Men don’t cry” while psychologist will say it’s a shame that men are taught this, the reality is that most Nigerian men especially learn that it’s not common to let out his feelings. Kissing in public is still considered weird especially Nigeria.As one uncle put it to me [I’m Congolese], “If you married a Nigerian, how would you cope if he wanted to retire in Nigeria? Could we really say that relationships would be easier if we were with someone of the same origin? If you’re going to marry a foreigner, marry a white man.” These were the words that fell from my friend’s mother’s mouth when her daughter told her she was dating a Nigerian man because she was tired of Congolese men. ”, said my friend in response, defiantly challenging her mother, to my dismay (anybody knows better than to challenge an African mother! White people “White people don’t have much culture; it’s easy to adapt either way. Was it really for our own good to find our life partners within our own culture?